PinnedPublished inThe ViragoAmber Heard Is the Wrong Sort of Victim — but I Was TooWhy do we choose to believe some abused women over others?May 17, 2022A response icon2May 17, 2022A response icon2
PinnedPublished inAbout Me StoriesAbout Me — Em Unravelling(I’m not sure how I feel about the “unravelling” part these days, tbh)Jan 26, 2021A response icon11Jan 26, 2021A response icon11
PinnedPublished inFearless She WroteMy Husband Visited a Strip Club — and My Reaction Shocked Us BothMainly, I learned never to try to predict my own feelingsFeb 8, 2021A response icon13Feb 8, 2021A response icon13
PinnedPublished inFearless She WroteAbusers Don’t All Look like Marilyn MansonThere is no way to tell an abusive man from his looks aloneFeb 14, 2021A response icon11Feb 14, 2021A response icon11
PinnedPublished inThe ViragoYour Narcissist Needs to Keep You DistractedCan’t think clearly? That’s exactly what they wantSep 17, 2020A response icon12Sep 17, 2020A response icon12
Published inThe ViragoWhy Did We All Pick Violent Men?A multi-generational puzzle I badly want to solveDec 6, 2021A response icon23Dec 6, 2021A response icon23
Published inThe Virago“Before They Bite, They Bark. Before They Hit You, They Hit Near You”How “Maid” on Netflix contains an important truth about domestic abuseOct 12, 2021A response icon29Oct 12, 2021A response icon29
Published inThe ViragoSeptember This Year Is Making Me SadBut that’s ok.Sep 17, 2021A response icon3Sep 17, 2021A response icon3
Published inThe ViragoThe Married Man I Had an Affair with Is No Longer MarriedWhy would I care one way or another, though?Aug 13, 2021A response icon21Aug 13, 2021A response icon21
Published inThe ViragoWhy Is It so Hard to End a Friendship?We both know it’s over, but we’re still hereJul 27, 2021A response icon3Jul 27, 2021A response icon3
