PinnedPublished inThe ViragoAmber Heard Is the Wrong Sort of Victim — but I Was TooWhy do we choose to believe some abused women over others?May 17, 20222May 17, 20222
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Published inThe ViragoWhy Did We All Pick Violent Men?A multi-generational puzzle I badly want to solveDec 6, 202123Dec 6, 202123
Published inThe Virago“Before They Bite, They Bark. Before They Hit You, They Hit Near You”How “Maid” on Netflix contains an important truth about domestic abuseOct 12, 202128Oct 12, 202128
Published inThe ViragoThe Married Man I Had an Affair with Is No Longer MarriedWhy would I care one way or another, though?Aug 13, 202121Aug 13, 202121
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